tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post5052574208776086714..comments2009-12-06T16:19:37.996-05:00djhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05160919323511463583noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-6219850128307711202009-12-06T16:19:37.996-05:002009-12-06T16:19:37.996-05:00Yes, a divorce is like death. I have been separated before, thinking divorce was on my door step. But hope stepped in and our relationship healed. It was a miracle. But not everyone has that miracle and that&#39;s ok too. God will guide you and he NEVER leaves you. He&#39;ll never leave either one of you. ((hugs))Sisterlisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09697215030563741501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-38763358247766055562009-10-03T11:25:16.267-04:002009-10-03T11:25:16.267-04:00Donna Jane, thanks for sharing as I am in the same boat, living a loveless, sexless relationship and not having where to go. Some times you think you&#39;re the only one and yet now I see by your sharing you were in the same boat. I don&#39;t want to wait 20 years until my kids grow up, I only pray God will help me to find the way to leave and start afresh. I hope your new beginnings bring peace, joy and wonder to your life.Mariannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12048543324922093998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-64934521373068089122009-10-01T20:43:59.580-04:002009-10-01T20:43:59.580-04:00Donna Jane, As you know, my 20year marriage ended in divorce last November. <br />I can testify that the experience is like a death, just as you said. Divorce is a darkness like no other and I am not yet fully recovered, nor are my kids, but we get stronger every day. And you will too. <br />I love you. Let me know if I can help, even if its just to listen, as you did for me.<br /><br />...this anonymous is KathyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-88950040344053562802009-10-01T12:40:28.796-04:002009-10-01T12:40:28.796-04:00ok...this anonymous is Katina.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-81621579626038949452009-10-01T12:38:32.525-04:002009-10-01T12:38:32.525-04:00Oh Sister, I ache for you. Wow! I can definitely share some insight and encouragement. It does get better...and there is a YOU in there somewhere, even though her identity may have been as &quot;Darin&#39;s wife&quot; for so long that you may not recognize her. You are all in my prayers and I will be in touch!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-44999276871677679792009-10-01T12:15:42.798-04:002009-10-01T12:15:42.798-04:00Oh Donna Jane... my heart aches and I find your words the same as mine when I whisper alone to myself. At times I feel I am the only one and alone in feeling this way. With my husband &amp; I, its either very good or very bad. And &quot;very good&quot; meaning - he&#39;s not hating *me* for *his* actions. He is so quick to apologize over things he has absolutely no control over but NEVER apologizes over what he *does* have control over. He doesn&#39;t *have to* curse me. He doesn&#39;t *have to* shove and push me. He doesn&#39;t *have to* be easily angered. <br /><br />I am no angel - and never claim to be. All I ever asked him to do - is to love God with all his might and with all of his soul. That.is.it. If he could *do* that - I know I would have the husband that would &quot;love me as Christ loves the church.&quot;<br /><br /><br /><br />&quot;To Love as Christ loves the church.&quot; That&#39;s what it all comes down to.<br /><br /><br />Thoughts,<br />Ruth<br />†Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-58850956832297881982009-10-01T12:09:32.659-04:002009-10-01T12:09:32.659-04:00i dont hv a google acct? only way it would let me post a comment. soooo, for today? i&#39;m anonymous.<br />luv u still.<br />Tammy W.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1627813587431216816.post-18352379809845612592009-10-01T12:08:20.735-04:002009-10-01T12:08:20.735-04:00Donna Jane. Ms.Butterfly.<br />I luv you.<br />TamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com